Buyers With Cold Feet

by Darrin DeRoches June 27 - July 3, 2013

The first time buyer has a lot going on when making the hundreds of decisions on buying their first property. They have to work up all their nerve to take the plunge and sign on the dotted line. Finding the right property is the easy part when working with first time buyers. The hard part is managing all of the opinions of the friends and family. Buying any property is a huge decision and a big financial move so most first time buyers will look to family and friends for advice. The only problem with this is most of these friends give advice and opinions without knowing anything about the property.     A recent deal fell apart in the last seconds on the advice of a friend. The buyer was so excited about buying his first home and was moving pretty fast. We showed him eight properties and he picked his favorite. We signed a deal for a great price and he was pre–approved for a mortgage and was ready to finalize the deal. We put in the clauses of financing and home inspection. At first he was not interested in doing a home inspection so we sent the deal off to his bank to get the mortgage and waited for the answer. A day later the buyer called me and wanted to set up a home inspection. We had a discussion about the house and he spoke to a friend and they strongly suggested he do a home inspection. Not a problem, so I sent him three home inspectors and he picked the one he wanted and set up the inspection. The inspector did the inspection and sent the buyer a 96 page detailed inspection via email and then the phone started ringing.     The buyer was milling over the very detailed inspection and had a few concerns. I explained the problems and had him call the inspector to get more information. After a couple of days of explaining the inspection, everything seemed fine and the bank had approved him for the mortgage so we just had to remove clauses.  We set a time to remove the clauses and firm up the deal. We meet and the buyer starts to change his tune. The buyer and his friend had gone over the inspection and could not get over one major issue. I understood his concerns, called the sellers agent and expressed our concerns and they agreed to have the issue resolved at their expense. Sounds great. Issue resolved – let’s buy this house. Cold feet!     The buyer and his friend could not get over all the minor issues with the house and did not feel comfortable buying the property. The sellers were willing to fix all issues, the inspector explained these were minor things and the house was in great overall shape but the wisdom of a friend and cold feet prevailed. No deal. One word of advice — listen to the professionals and your gut — not a friend. V     Darrin DeRoches is a local real estate and mortgage broker. He can be reached to answer questions, comments or stories about real estate experiences through this weekly column at sold@uniquerealty.ca.